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Selfish Unhappiness
There are times when I do not feel happy. In fact I just do not want to change my mood or feeling towards being happy. I just want to remain in an Unhappy state.
It is not that I can not change. But do I really want to change my mood?
Rabbi Norah explained in one of messages.
Misconception 3: Happiness is optional. If I want to be depressed, that is my own prerogative.
A beautiful Sunday afternoon. You are at the park having a picnic with your friends.
Suddenly the air is pierced by one person complaining: "Who forgot the forks? It is too hot for volleyball. I want to go home already."
You have an obligation to be happy when your mood is negatively affecting others. Do not spoil the fun.
We all try to put on a happy face when we are at a party. But what about when we are at home, with our kids? Or when we trudge into the office on Monday morning?
Like an open pit in the middle of the road, a sour puss is a public menace. Being happy is part of being considerate to people around us.
Very True.
Happiness is optional and that option is surely with me. I can exercise it if I want or if I really want.
I change my mood and feelings in front of people who may not give a damn to my mood. I flip my mood with people I need to impress. I suddenly change my behavior in front of new acquaintances. It is so much possible.
But.
When at home or with family members, my negative moods and feelings come out magnified and refuses to change. It becomes impossible for me to change my mood from an Unhappy to a happy one.
I do not want to change my unhappiness when I am with the people whom I can take for granted. People who care for me or love me do not get any consideration from me when I am unhappy.
Although it is possible to change, I do not change with this set of people.
I show my selfishness.
Unhappiness is my problem. I have an option to remain in the same state or change. I really have an option. But I have no right to spread unhappiness just because I am comfortable being unhappy.
I can not be Selfish in being Unhappy.
Should I?
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